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A big thank you.
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12/12/2011 18:24
12/12/2011 18:24
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2011 has not been the best of years On 27th October, following a marathon of tests and scans, my 16yr old daughter was diagnosed with Cancer. Specifically it is Hogkins Disease and in its early stages (Stage 2a for those in the know). As it turns out we have caught it very early and it is very treatable so there are plenty of reasons to be optimistic. But until mid January when we shall have the results of the scans post the treatment I shall not be able to relax, at the moment life exists a day at a time. We started Chemotherapy on 21st November and that was 5 days of treatment at the Royal Marsden Sutton. We are now nearly half way through. Currently she needs two 4 week cycles and then we have a load of scans to await the results off, which will be nerve racking. I decided to write this post for two reasons:- Firstly to say thank you to a load of folks here that have made the last 6 months bearable. Specifically Begbie for helping me sort my coupe, Meanredspider and Stan for their advice and wisdom, PeteP for lending me tools and even offering me his coupe to borrow! And to a host of others who have offered me their support and time. Secondly, to the rest of you on this forum. It has been invaluable in maintaing a sense of normality amogst a sea of angst, as well as something to read during sleepless nights! (and AndrewRs posts nearly got me to sleep ) This has been a life changing situation for all the Family and I am very proud of the way Evie has coped with it. She has just lost her hair which is traumatic for anyone but as a 16yr old girl with a new boyfriend you can imagine the trauma. Although life has become a day at a time process, but it has not been miserable! There have of course been some lows and the steroids Evie is on can really make her down. But in general we have made the best of the situation. Hospital visits are actually quite fun. We have a good laugh playing games and chatting and it feels comforting when things are happening. As anyone who has been through similar can attest, it is the waiting that is distressing. When things are happening it is bearable. I cannot describe the weeks leading up to diagnosis, despair, and absolute grief. I would have done anything to swap places with her. However we remained positive and hopeful too and once we are out the other side of this I intend to do some serious fund raising so watch this space. Anyway that is way too far in the future to think about, geez, Christmas is barely on our radar yet. So if anyone encounters this same situation please use the people here for advice and help. It has helped me through and reinstalled my faith in humankind. Thank you all and the best of health to you and yours for 2012. John
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12/12/2011 18:32
12/12/2011 18:32
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patch234
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Heart-touching John - and all the best wishes to you all from my heart.
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12/12/2011 18:51
12/12/2011 18:51
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John, all the very best to ALL concerned . Although I am not a religious guy I will offer a few prayers and all the very best to all of you, Tim
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12/12/2011 18:57
12/12/2011 18:57
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I can only imagine what you all must be going through John.Best wishes from Gill and i mate. We will be thinking of you all at this tough time in you're lives.
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12/12/2011 19:29
12/12/2011 19:29
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Best wishes to you and your family John.
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12/12/2011 19:37
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Jonny
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Fingers crossed for you and your family John. Charlie's story, friends with cancer (relatively young at 34) and now this that HAVE changed how I feel about everyday life. Most things people moan about really are trivial and as you say, every day is precious.
I'm sure you'll find strength here.
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12/12/2011 20:23
12/12/2011 20:23
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What John modestly ommitted to say was that 3 years ago, when I was recovering from cancer surgery and undergoing chemotherapy, he was right in there keeping my spirits up.
Thoroughly good bloke and I know how positive he is about fighting the shit that life throws at you.
With a dad like him Evie can't go wrong.
16VT and X1/9 1500
We must all do our part for the planet. I unplugged a row of electric cars that nobody was using.
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12/12/2011 20:28
12/12/2011 20:28
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nismo
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best wishes to you and your family John .
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12/12/2011 20:42
12/12/2011 20:42
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Good luck to you, Evie and the family John. You will all come through this eventually and this will be a nasty stain looking back. Be strong big fella we're all thinking of her and it will turn out ok
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12/12/2011 20:46
12/12/2011 20:46
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Best wishes to you and your family John.
Ex 432bhp '00 Sprinty 20vt6 '17 S3 Sportback '69 Amazon 131
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12/12/2011 21:07
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John, ANY thing thing I can possibly do to help??
I will pm you my number just incase there's any thing possible you need!!
I wish your daughter a speedy recovery!!!
All the best mate!!!
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12/12/2011 21:42
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Sorry to hear this. Once again life reminds us that some problems are minor inconveniences, this is one of those, especially at this time of year.
All the best to all of you, but particularly Evie.
"RK's way seems the most sensible to me". ali_hire 16 Dec 2010
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12/12/2011 21:47
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John,
Thanks for your unsettling and informative post...so sorry Evie and your family have been affected in this way...
There is so much in each forum member's lives that we neglect to share with each other.... but with sharing comes understanding and a sense of familiarity and family... even with the odd ball guy from across the pond in Canada.
I pray for a better 2012 for Evie and your family John...keep your chin up....and try and keep a smile on your face.
Paul the Coupe 20vT newbie in Canada
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12/12/2011 23:10
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Best wishes to you and your family John. And again if there is anything I can do you only need too ask. I have discussed this already with a few people, I will be organising a coupe gumball rally sort of thing, Lands End to John O Groates for charity and I've been considering which charity would be best and now I think I know. Possible prizes to those that raise the most money and them that actually make it there
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12/12/2011 23:46
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John, all the very best to you and Sam and wishing Evie the speediest recovery
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13/12/2011 00:20
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All the best to you and your family john, hope your daughter makes a fast recovery And great charity choice paul for the gumball run next year, am sure everyone on here will agree and join in
Last edited by Lezza; 13/12/2011 00:24.
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13/12/2011 10:09
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Hi
So sorry to hear about that, I am not a regular on here any more so did not know, however hopefully as you say it was caught early its sounds like there are lots of reasons to be positive. Having no children myself it is something I almost cant comprehend, but shall have my fingers crossed for your daughter.
M.
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13/12/2011 11:27
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My thoughts are with you, your family and especially your daughter. I can't even imagine what you are going through. Stay strong and positive for your daughter, and let your friends be strong and positive for you.
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