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My name is Sugerbear and I am an introvert
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27/03/2012 20:40
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Reading a comment on this http://www.bbc.co.uk/news/magazine-17510163 It's really comforting to know there are others who find it just as exhausting as I do to be in over-stimulating social situations. In multiple conversations round dinner tables, at parties, or even in crowded city centres I "zone out" and just feel knackered. In one-to-one situations, on the other hand, I never feel tired.
This is exactly me. My brother received the extrovert gene can easily talk to people in any situation where as I do just zone out and prefer one to one company. So which are you.. introvert or extrovert ?
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27/03/2012 21:02
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Re: My name is Sugerbear and I am an introvert
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27/03/2012 21:21
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So which are you.. introvert or extrovert ? I'd tell you but I'm too shy.
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Re: My name is Sugerbear and I am an introvert
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27/03/2012 21:23
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Re: My name is Sugerbear and I am an introvert
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27/03/2012 22:48
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So annoyingly. Though on the positive side you can always rely on them to go and talk to people that you dont want to.
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Re: My name is Sugerbear and I am an introvert
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27/03/2012 23:09
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So annoyingly. Though on the positive side you can always rely on them to go and talk to people that you dont want to. That usually involves them talking to each other...
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Re: My name is Sugerbear and I am an introvert
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28/03/2012 01:22
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Me too (I think lol). I like chatting to people and meeting people, although not in a 'centre of attention' way, but like to be able to get away if I need to also.
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Re: My name is Sugerbear and I am an introvert
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28/03/2012 01:26
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Theresa, I never thought I would utter these words, but you sound normal to me 
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Re: My name is Sugerbear and I am an introvert
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28/03/2012 01:32
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No, far from it 
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Re: My name is Sugerbear and I am an introvert
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28/03/2012 01:40
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For some unidentified reason, I can't stay in with a conversation that involves more than three people. I just fade out and no-one talks to me.
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Re: My name is Sugerbear and I am an introvert
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28/03/2012 01:45
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Do they know who you are?
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Re: My name is Sugerbear and I am an introvert
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28/03/2012 01:52
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Apparently not, but I can tell you that turning up to the pub in my outfit doesn't help.
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Re: My name is Sugerbear and I am an introvert
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28/03/2012 08:19
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Bit of both really but mainly smaller groups of people are better 
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28/03/2012 10:41
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tend towards introvert, although the last few years my job has involved more large meetings and presentations so have had to find a way to do it. There's a few on here who may disagree with that, but that's just the "power" of alcohol 
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Re: My name is Sugerbear and I am an introvert
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28/03/2012 11:53
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I prefer a small group, but don't have major issues in large groups, but not great are starting off conversations with strangers. I would rather let others get the conversation going and then I will happily jump on in.
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29/03/2012 20:00
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tend towards introvert, although the last few years my job has involved more large meetings and presentations so have had to find a way to do it. That's nothing to do with being introverted or extroverted. I'm 100% comfortable contributing to large meetings, which I do regularly, and speaking to large audiences does not bother me in the least. In fact I quite enjoy it. I'm definitely an introvert, though, and identify with a lot of the comments above.
1. Think of something witty and urbane 2. Imagine it written here
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Re: My name is Sugerbear and I am an introvert
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30/03/2012 13:13
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Jimbob.... glad its not just me! All my life Ive had : Alans a nice guy, but hes quiet (as if its a fault)
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30/03/2012 17:43
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Jimbob.... glad its not just me! All my life Ive had : Alans a nice guy, but hes quiet (as if its a fault) I know that feeling. I think the problem may be (and please correct me if i'm wrong, more talkative people) that in a social setting, silence is often mistaken for either ill nature or stupidity.
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Re: My name is Sugerbear and I am an introvert
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30/03/2012 18:08
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Am surprise no-one has yet quoted a phrase old Abe Lincoln made famous:
"It is better to remain silent and be thought a fool than to open one's mouth and remove all doubt."
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