Well after agreeing to buy from 2 sellers within a acceptable collection area of my partners family the first of which couldnt have gone any better
And my partner collected en route with sellers mobile house address and name..
Even helped her load the wheels in the boot! Great stuff!
But the other seller seems to have no idea... ffs
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There are some complete idiots out there mate, I totally understand where you're coming from

Looks like it will end with 99% feedback. I think some people just like to be awkward hope it all works out for you.

Been trying to sell my Laguna.. Had a scam offer on eBay offering to pay in full with Paypal and have somebody collect the car. Turns out its quite a common problem.

The singular most common problem!

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Btw just so you know if you have bought the item over eBay you do know you can get his address right i cant remember exactly ow but it is possible. You need to click that buy button though otherwise if its a cash deal not through eBay you can't do nothing. Some people are just so awkward!

thanks nick yes but apparently the bumpers in storage at his mums! we have tried contacting his work mobile with no reply and no voicemail set up!

I think in your situation i would have suggested an unpleasant act involving said bumper and a certain orifice by now. I admire your patience.

he he nice one jimbob! just trying to maintain proper conduct via ebay rules ...